- Q. What is a contact me? How many times can I contact someone?
- Q. How do I change my password?
- Q. Why do members want to know when I look at their profile or save them to a Hot List?
- Q. Why does my Hot List counter change?
- Q. Do people actually meet on your site? Do they ever get married?
- Q. When someone sends me a message, where does it go and how do I respond?
- Q. How do I edit my profile?
- Q. If I remove my profile, will it end my subscription?
- Q. Can I put my subscription on hold?
- Q. I forgot my password. Can you tell me what to do?
- Q. How do I change my username, or password?
- Q. How do I contact customer service?
- Q. How do I create a profile?
- Q. How do I view my own profile?
- Q. How do I update my profile?
- Q. Why is it so important to fill out a complete profile?
- Q. What are the profile guidelines?
- Q. How confidential is my profile?
- Q. Why am I not getting very many responses from other members?
- Q. Will my profile still show up if I end my subscription?
- Q. Can I reactivate my profile once I've removed it?
- Q. How do I submit photos for my profile?
- Q. How do I update my photos?
- Q. What are the acceptable photo formats if I upload or email them to you?
- Q. How do I convert my photos into JPG format?
- Q. How do I make sure that my photos will get posted?
- Q. What's the difference between a free membership and a Premium Membership?
- Q. Can I still send email if I cancel my subscription today?
- Q. Why should I get a Premium Membership?
- Q. What are the prices and subscription plans you offer?
- Q. What are my payment options?
- Q. Why was my subscription automatically renewed?
- Q. When will my subscription expire?
- Q. Will my profile still show up if I end my subscription?
- Q. Can I still read and respond to messages if I cancel my Premium Membership?
- Q. If I bought a 3-month subscription and cancel after one month, can I get a refund for the remaining two months?
- Q. How do I contact someone that interests me?
- Q. When someone contacts me, where does the message go and how do I respond?
- Q. Do I have to be a Premium Member to read and reply to messages from other members?
- Q. How can I see who has contacted me?
- Q. Who can contact me?
- Q. How can I see who I have contacted?
- Q. How can I decline contact?
- Q. What happens when I block someone?
- Q. How do I add someone to my Hot Lists?
- Q. How do I view my Hot Lists?
- Q. Why do people want other members to know when they look at their profile or Hot List them?
- Q. Why does my Hot List counter change?
Q. What is a contact me? How many times can I contact someone?
All women, can send emails for free! If you are a man, and if you'd like to take it a step further, we suggest upgrading to a Premium Membership and sending an email to start up a real conversation.
Q. How do I change my password?
Click " Account "
Click Change Password
After you've made your changes, click button"Change password" and you're done.
Q. Why do members want to know when I look at their profile or save them to a Hot List?
A. Members who are really active on the site like to let other members know when they look at their profile or Hot List them because it livens things up and often breaks the ice when it comes to emailing.
So many times we hear that members contact someone simply because he or she looked at their profile or Hot Listed them. Members also say that their Hot Lists lead them to meet members that they might not have seen in a search.
Q. Why does my Hot List counter change?
A. Half of your Hot Lists tell you what you're doing on the site. Every time you look at or contact another member, it shows up in your Hot Lists and the numbers go up accordingly.
The other half of your Hot Lists tell you about other members with regards to you. Every time someone looks at your profile or contacts you, it shows up in your Hot Lists and the numbers go up accordingly.
Q. Do people actually meet on your site? Do they ever get married?
Q. When someone sends me a message, where does it go and how do I respond?
A. Once you've created your own profile, other members can start contacting you. We'll let you know that you have a new message by sending a notification to your personal email address. To read the message, simply login to the site and go to your Inbox in the Messages drop-down menu. If you decide to write back, click Reply, write your own message and send away.
Your message will go straight into the member's Inbox, and we'll notify them that it's there.
Q. How do I edit my profile?
A. To update your profile, go to Your Profile in the Profile drop-down menu. Click Edit next to the section you'd like to update. Be sure to save your changes at the bottom of the screen when you're done.
Q. If I remove my profile, will it end my subscription?
Q. Can I put my subscription on hold?
Q. I forgot my password. Can you tell me what to do?
Q. How do I change my username, or password?
Q. How do I contact customer service?
Q. How do I create a profile?
Q. How do I view my own profile?
Q. How do I update my profile?
Q. Why is it so important to fill out a complete profile?
A. Your profile lets people know that you are single and available!
Plus, it lets them know that you are interesting and worth writing to. If someone looks at your profile and there's not much there, why would they bother?
This is not the time for brevity, folks. More is more. Make yourself interesting to others and you will get a great response on the site. If you post photos too, you'll get even more people writing to you. The ball's in your court.
Q. What are the profile guidelines?
Incarcerated individuals
Individuals under the age of 18
Q. How confidential is my profile?
Q. Why am I not getting very many responses from other members?
A. If you're not getting many responses, it might be a good time to spice up your profile and get personal with your emails. Here are a few suggestions to get you started.
Post photos in your profile. People like to talk to people they can see, so the more photos you have up, the more comfortable people will be emailing to you. In fact, most members only search for and write to people with photos, and members with photos get contacted more frequently than members without.
Your photos should show more than just what you look like -- they should communicate your personality and the things that you love about your life! Ideally, a life that someone would want to be a part of.
What should you show? Think fun, happy, warm, interesting, smiles... and think about the things that you love about your life (skiing, painting, traveling, playing with your dog, etc.). The first photo should be a headshot and the others can be more creative. Just remember to make them clear, recent and in focus!
Take a look at our list of Things To Write About if you get really stuck.
Write great personal introductory emails. Although "Hey, you look cute, check out my profile," may sound short and sweet, in fact, it really is a canned intro that is easily dismissed. When contacting other members, remember to ask yourself, "Why am I writing to this person?" and then tell him/her. Flattery, writing about things you have in common, and a sense of humor will get you everywhere.
Q. Will my profile still show up if I end my subscription?
Q. Can I reactivate my profile once I've removed it?
Q. How do I submit photos for my profile?
Q. How do I update my photos?
A. To update your photos, click Profile at the top of the screen and then photos. Add, delete or change the order of your photos as you like.
Q. What are the acceptable photo formats if I upload or email them to you?
A. Only send photo files with a JPG extension
Minimum: 350 x 350 pixels at 72 DPI
Q. How do I convert my photos into JPG format?
Q. How do I make sure that my photos will get posted?
Q. What's the difference between a free membership and a Premium Membership?
A. With your free membership, you can post a profile and photos, search and view other members' profiles, read dating advice and more………
When you upgrade to a Premium Membership, you can send, read and reply to email.
To upgrade to a Premium Membership at our low monthly rate, go to any of the Subscribe links around the site.
Note! This is only for men, all our ladies can use our services totally free!
Q. Can I still send email if I cancel my subscription today?
Q. Why should I get a Premium Membership?
A. As a Premium Member, you can use all the communication tools on the site, including email, and being a Premium Member lets other members know you're serious about finding a relationship. A three-month subscription costs less than a night on the town, so there's nothing to lose.
Q. What are the prices and subscription plans you offer?
A. Our Premium Membership plans are:
|
Initial Subscription Term |
Initial Cost |
Monthly Renewal Rate* |
|
1 Month |
$ 35 |
$ 35 |
|
3 Months |
$ 60 |
$ 60 |
To upgrade to Premium Membership at our special low monthly rate, go to account, upgrade to premium, or simple click big red button on the left meniu at the top with name ( Upgrade for premium )
*The Guaranteed Monthly Renewal Rate will apply for credit card purchases only at the expiration of your initial Subscription Term and will automatically continue as a monthly recurring transaction unless or until you choose a different subscription plan or cancel your subscription. All prices are in U.S. Dollars. All sales final.
Q. What are my payment options?
Q. Why was my subscription automatically renewed?
Q. When will my subscription expire?
Q. Will my profile still show up if I end my subscription?
Q. Can I still read and respond to messages if I cancel my Premium Membership?
Q. If I bought a 3-month subscription and cancel after one month, can I get a refund for the remaining two months?
Q. How do I contact someone that interests me?
A. You can contact a member by sending an email.
Q. When someone contacts me, where does the message go and how do I respond?
A. Once you've created your own profile, other members can start contacting you. We'll let you know that you have messages by sending a notice to your personal email address. If you're already a Premium Member, you can pick up your messages from your onsite Inbox by clicking Messages in the top menu. If you decide to write back, click Reply, write your own message and send away.
Not yet a Premium Member? Click Upgrade for premium in the left menu, for our low monthly rates.
All communications with other members stay onsite so you never have to give out personal information until you feel completely ready. Then when you are, you can exchange phone numbers and even meet in person.
Q. Do I have to be a Premium Member to read and reply to messages from other members?
A. Only If you are male, Yes you must be a Premium Member to read and reply to messages. Not yet a Premium Member? Click Subscribe in the top menu, and you can sign up at our low monthly rates.
Once you've subscribed, you can access your onsite Inbox by clicking Messages in the top menu. To respond to someone, simply open the message, click reply, write your message and send away. Your message will go straight into the member's onsite Inbox, and we'll notify them that it's there.
Q. How can I see who has contacted me?
A. All messages from other members go straight into your onsite Inbox and are kept there unless you choose to delete them. To read messages, login to the site and go to your Inbox by clicking Messages in the top menu. From each message, you can also click through to the member's profile.
Q. Who can contact me?
A. Any Premium Member member can contact you. When they do, the message goes straight into your onsite Inbox, and we notify you at your personal email address. Likewise, if you reply, your message will go straight into their onsite Inbox. All member-to-member contacts stay onsite so you never have to give out personal information until you choose.
You must be a Premium Member to read and reply to messages. Still need to sign up? Click Subscribe in the top menu and become a Premium Member at our low monthly rates.
Q. How can I see who I have contacted?
A. All messages that you send are kept in the Sent section of your onsite Inbox until you choose to delete them.
Q. How can I decline contact?
A. If you're not interested in someone who sent you a message, we recommend replying with a friendly "no thank you" note. You can also block a member from sending additional messages by going to your Inbox, selecting a message from that member and clicking the Block button. The member will then be added to your Blocked List.
Q. What happens when I block someone?
A. When you block a member, he or she can no longer send you emails.
All blocked members can be found on your Blocked List. If you would like to unblock a member, simply go to your Blocked list, and select Unlist from Blocked in the drop-down menu. The member will be removed from your Blocked list and will be able to contact you again.
Q. How do I add someone to my Hot Lists?
Q. How do I view my Hot Lists?
Q. Why do people want other members to know when they look at their profile or Hot List them?
A. Members who are very active on the site like to let other members know when they look at their profile or Hot List them because it livens things up and often breaks the ice when it comes to emailing.
So many times we hear that members contact someone simply because he or she looked their profile. Members also say that their Hot Lists lead them to meet members they might not have met otherwise.
Q. Why does my Hot List counter change?
A. Half of your Hot Lists show your activity on the site. Every time you look at or contact another member, it shows up on your Hot Lists and the numbers go up accordingly.
The other half of your Hot Lists tell you about what other members are doing with regards to you -- looking at your profile, emailing you, etc. Every time people look at your profile or contact you, their profiles show up on your Hot Lists, and the numbers go up accordingly. Keep in mind, however, that some members choose to hide their profile from showing up in your Hot Lists.